Stuff to Send to Your Boyfriend

  1. Sweet Texts:
    • “Just wanted to remind you how much you mean to me. 😊”
    • “I can’t stop thinking about you. ❤️”
    • “You’re my favorite part of the day. 🌟”
    • “Missing you already. Can’t wait to see you.”
  2. Compliments:
    • Send him a compliment about his looks or something specific you love about him.
    • “You always know how to make me smile.”
    • “Your kindness and generosity amaze me.”
  3. Surprise Notes:
    • Leave a handwritten note in his bag or pocket expressing your feelings.
    • Stick a cute note on his mirror for him to find in the morning.
  4. Voice Messages:
    • Record a sweet voice message expressing your love or sharing a special moment.
  5. Random Acts of Kindness:
    • Order his favorite food for delivery to his place.
    • Send him a surprise care package with his favorite snacks.
  6. Plan a Virtual Date:
    • Set up a virtual movie night or dinner date.
    • Play an online game together.
  7. Customized Playlist:
    • Create a playlist of songs that remind you of him or that you both enjoy.
  8. Photos and Memories:
    • Share a cute or funny throwback photo with a sweet caption.
    • Create a shared photo album with memories of your time together.
  9. Supportive Messages:
    • Send an encouraging message if he’s going through a tough time.
    • “I believe in you, and I’m here for you.”
  10. Future Plans:
    • Share your dreams and plans for the future together.
    • “Can’t wait to create more memories with you.”

What is the sexiest thing to say to your dominant man as a sub?

  1. “I’ve been waiting all day for your commands.”
  2. “Your wish is my command.”
  3. “I trust you completely.”
  4. “I live to serve you.”
  5. “How can I please you today?”
  6. “I’m yours to use as you please.”
  7. “I love it when you take control.”
  8. “I need your guidance.”
  9. “Your pleasure is my purpose.”
  10. “I crave your discipline.”
  11. “Your dominance is so sexy.”
  12. “I’ve been a good/bad girl/boy, haven’t I?”
  13. “Your rules are my command.”
  14. “I belong to you.”
  15. “You make me feel so safe.”
  16. “I need your strength.”
  17. “I’m ready for your instructions.”
  18. “Your touch is my reward.”
  19. “I surrender to your will.”
  20. “Nothing pleases me more than pleasing you.”
  21. “I’m eager for your commands.”
  22. “You’re in charge, and I love it.”
  23. “I’m all yours tonight.”
  24. “I’m at your mercy.”
  25. “I exist to serve you.”
  26. “I love being your submissive.”
  27. “I crave your authority.”
  28. “You make me feel so controlled, and I love it.”
  29. “I’m ready to obey.”
  30. “I’m yours to command.”
  31. “You’re my master, and I willingly submit.”
  32. “I’ve been longing for your command.”
  33. “I am in your hands.”
  34. “I need your control.”
  35. “I love it when you’re firm with me.”
  36. “I crave your dominance.”
  37. “I can’t wait to follow your orders.”
  38. “Your control is all I desire.”
  39. “I’m eager for your dominance.”
  40. “Discipline me in the way only you can.”
  41. “Your strength drives me wild.”
  42. “I can’t wait to serve you.”
  43. “Take control of me.”
  44. “I love being under your command.”
  45. “I am devoted to your desires.”
  46. “I want to earn your praise.”
  47. “Your dominance is my desire.”
  48. “I’m ready to submit to you.”
  49. “I’m craving your control.”
  50. “I am yours to play with.”

Or if you like EXTRA Kinky!

  1. “I need you to spank me until my ass is red, Sir.”
  2. “I’m aching for your cock, Master.”
  3. “Please fill me up, Sir, I’m empty without you.”
  4. “Use me as your plaything, I exist for your pleasure.”
  5. “I’m wet and begging for your touch.”
  6. “I ache for the sting of your flogger, Sir.”
  7. “Please, Master, I need to feel your control deep inside me.”
  8. “My body is yours to use and abuse, Sir.”
  9. “I’m desperate to taste you, Master.”
  10. “Please, Sir, may I swallow your cum?”
  11. “Tie me up and take me, I’m yours.”
  12. “I’m dripping and desperate for your cock, Sir.”
  13. “I need to be filled and fucked by you, Master.”
  14. “I’m your dirty little cock slut, Sir.”
  15. “Take me, use me, make me scream your name, Master.”
  16. “I’m begging for your rough hands on me.”
  17. “Your cock is my heaven, Sir.”
  18. “I crave the taste of your cum, Master.”
  19. “I can’t wait to be spread open and used by you, Sir.”
  20. “Please, I need you to fill all my holes, Master.”
  21. “I’m desperate to feel your cock throbbing inside me, Sir.”
  22. “I’m aching to be your naughty little cum slut, Master.”
  23. “Make me gag on your cock, Sir.”
  24. “I want to feel your hot cum inside me, Master.”
  25. “Tie me down and make me take it, Sir.”
  26. “I’m begging to be your dirty little whore, Master.”
  27. “Please, Sir, I need to feel your control in every inch of me.”
  28. “I’m your obedient fucktoy, Master.”
  29. “Make me scream, Sir, I need your punishment.”
  30. “I’m desperate to be stretched and filled by you, Master.”
  31. “I need to feel your hands all over me, Sir.”
  32. “I’m aching for your cock, please take me, Master.”
  33. “I want to feel you pounding into me, Sir.”
  34. “Use your cock to remind me who I belong to, Master.”
  35. “I need to feel your weight on me, your control over me, Sir.”
  36. “I’m desperate to feel you explode inside me, Master.”
  37. “Please, Sir, I need to feel your whip on my skin.”
  38. “Make me your dirty little slut, Master.”
  39. “Please, Sir, I need to feel you deep inside my ass.”
  40. “Use me, abuse me, make me your whore, Master.”
  41. “I want to be filled with your cum, Sir.”
  42. “I’m begging for your cock, Master.”
  43. “Please, Sir, I need to be punished, make me feel it.”
  44. “I’m aching for your chains on my skin, Master.”
  45. “I need to be used and degraded by you, Sir.”
  46. “Please, Master, I need to feel your hands choking me.”
  47. “I’m begging to be your cum dumpster, Sir.”
  48. “I need to feel your cock pounding into me, Master.”
  49. “Please, Sir, I need to feel you stretching me open.”
  50. “I’m your obedient slut, use me as your fucktoy, Master.”

How do I become a good sub to my new experienced dom?

Ask your Dom. They are the ultimate judge of whether or not you are being a good sub. Pay attention to their rules, rituals, protocols, etc. If you don’t understand something, ask for a clearer explanation.

Set your limits. Having limits doesn’t make you a bad sub. On the contrary, it means you are looking out for your Dom by not putting them in a bad position when those limits are crossed. It’s one of your responsibilities as a sub.

Don’t let yourself get hurt. Some subs, particularly when bottoming for S&M play, feel that they need to take as much as they can to please their Dom. There’s a difference between pain and injury. If you get injured because you were too stubborn to use a safe word, you could land your Dom in some very real legal trouble in addition to the guilt they would likely feel.

Don’t rely on your Dom to do everything. Do research for yourself. Learning as much as you can about the lifestyle will help you protect yourself from abusers who use BDSM as a cover/defense for their actions. It will help keep you physically safe when undertaking play that carries physical risks since you will understand the risks and be able to help your Dom mitigate them. It also shows that you care about the lifestyle and are enthusiastic about your role.

2024 Vision Board Ideas

  1. Clarity of Goals: Clearly define your short-term and long-term goals. Be specific about what you want to achieve in various aspects of your life, such as career, relationships, health, and personal development.
  2. Visual Representation: Use images, words, and symbols that resonate with your goals. These visuals should evoke strong positive emotions and serve as a constant reminder of your aspirations.
  3. Balance and Diversity: Ensure your vision board reflects a balanced and diverse range of goals. This can include professional achievements, personal growth, relationships, health, and any other areas that are important to you.
  4. Affirmations: Incorporate positive affirmations that align with your goals. Use present tense statements to reinforce a mindset that assumes success and achievement.
  5. Realism and Achievability: While it’s great to dream big, make sure your goals are realistic and achievable. Break down larger goals into smaller, actionable steps to maintain motivation and track progress.
  6. Consistency: Place your vision board in a location where you will see it daily. Consistent exposure to your goals reinforces their importance in your mind and can help you stay focused.
  7. Update Regularly: Life is dynamic, and your goals may evolve over time. Regularly review and update your vision board to ensure it accurately reflects your current aspirations.
  8. Visualization Techniques: Spend time each day visualizing yourself achieving the goals on your vision board. This practice can help reinforce a positive mindset and improve your chances of success.
  9. Share with Others: Consider sharing your vision board with friends, family, or a supportive community. Sharing your goals can create a sense of accountability and may open up opportunities for collaboration or encouragement.
  10. Action Plan: A vision board is a tool to inspire action. Develop a concrete plan of action for each goal on your board. Identify specific steps you can take to move closer to your vision.

Remember, a vision board is a personal and dynamic tool. The key is to connect emotionally with your goals, stay committed, and take consistent actions toward turning your vision into reality.